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The Proposal

 
 

On Victor's 30th birthday, his parents took him to dinner to celebrate in San Francisco. During dinner, Victor delightfully surprised his parents over chocolate cake and expressed that Vivien was the one and that over the next few months he would go ring shopping.

Of course, Victor needed to get Vivien's family members' blessing first. As soon as Victor landed back in Shanghai, he called Vivien's dad and asked him if he was available for dim sum. Vivien's dad found this request unusual for typically Vivien arranges the family meals. However, he played along and said, "Yes. Where?" Providing the time and location, Victor also added that Vivien will not be joining because she has overtime work.

 
 

Vivien's dad and Victor met for dim sum and when it was almost time to pay the bill, Victor paused and said "Uncle, I would like to ask you something. I would like to ask you for your permission to marry your daughter."

Vivien's dad smiled and responded "Really. I am very happy for you. Are you ready for this?"

Victor couldn't be more ready and resoundingly answered "Yes."

The course set path and the hunt for the perfect ring began. Victor dug into Vivien's jewelery boxes and tried on all her rings, took pictures on his IPhone and brought them to jewlery stores trying to figure out her size, but to no avail. He then called Vivien's closest aunt, best friend and also conveniently a jewlery expert. Another dim sum was arranged just between Victor and her aunt. Again as the bill was about to be settled (you're probably seeing a pattern here), Victor paused and told the aunt that he is planning to propose to Vivien. Her aunt reacted with absolute joy and then jumped into a lecture on Diamonds 101.

 
 

It took a few more months for Victor to gather the diamond type and color Vivien ever dreamed of. With her Aunt's guidance, Victor finally found the perfect ring that represented Vivien's taste, style, personality and beauty.

In the middle of May, Victor called two of Vivien's closest friends - Ruby and Dana - and told them that he wanted to throw a surprise proposal. Both reacted with different variations of "OMG!" After sharing the excitment, Victor turned serious and told them that he would need their help. Victor needed Ruby's help to secure the proposal venue and decorations while Victor was on business travel. Victor needed Dana's help to organize the best welcome back Shanghai party for herself (she had just moved to Taipei) and more importantly this request from Dana is actually typical so there was no susipicion from any of Vivien's friends. Ruby and Dana flawlessly executed their assignments and the rest was left up to Victor.

 
  On Sunday, June 8th, Dana's welcome back to Shanghai dinner began and all of Vivien's closest friends sat around an elegant round table in a private dining room inside the Shanghai Science Hall. We all feasted on an eight course Shanghainese inspired cuisine with bottles of wine. The funny part was we were all praising Dana for her amazing connections with restaurants and she naturally played along.  
  When dessert was about to be served, Ruby told Vivien to go to accompany her to the bathroom. While Ruby and Vivien walked out of the room,Victor suddenly stood up and told Dana it's time. Everyone eyes' turned to confusion and started questioning, "What is going on?". Victor then popped open the two doors leading to the private balcony. The videographers, roses and candles confirmed everyone's suspicions as they jumped with excitment and joy. While Ruby was stalling Vivien in the bathroom by sharing her boy stories and trying to get Vivien to put on red lipstick (Vivien of course, questioned Ruby for this strange request, but Ruby still managed to get Vivien to put it on) , the rest of us gathered outside on the balcony.  
 

Dana showed her phone to Victor and it showed 09:24 pm (Dana and Victor share the same exact birthday of September 24th). Glancing back up, Victor noticed Ruby was about to bring Vivien through the balcony doors. Victor quickly ran to the doors and and as it opened, Vivien stared, jumped and turned back yelling "OMG!" Before Vivien could run away from the room, Victor grabbed her hands and walked her down the aisle of candles to the bouquet of flowers. The following then took place...

 
 
     

Replay the Moment

When: Sunday, June 8th, 2014 at 09:24 pm
Where: Shanghai Science Hall
Witnesses: Cammier Huang, Chris Tam, Dana Howng, Erik Chin, Henry Young, Jessica Wu, Tiffany Wu, Ruby Xiao